What defines you?

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I believe that if someone asked the people closest to me to describe me using 3-5 words, one of those words would be dependable. I have always been the person people could count on. I am the dependable daughter, dependable sister, dependable friend, and dependable employee. I do not like letting people down. I want to be the person that people can count on. For the longest time, I thought this quality was so positive and it was an honor to be described in this way. However, as of late, I have come to learn that being dependable has its drawbacks. 

I hate feeling like I am letting people down. I don’t want people to feel like they cannot count on me. But recently, I have noticed that not wanting to disappoint people has often led me to my own detriment. I have said yes to things, even though I know that deep down inside I did not want to do those things. I have put myself in compromising positions because I did not want to let people down. I have given more than I could afford because I was the one the one people could count on. Doing these things despite how I felt or what is my reality has caused me some hurt and pain. I am left depleted and exhausted because I am so determined to be what everyone needs. I have neglected myself in the process. 

For the last few weeks, I have been struggling. I have been withdrawn, agitated, absentminded, and apathetic. I have also struggled with motivation with day-to-day tasks. I am fatigued not taking care of myself. I couldn’t understand why I have been feeling this way. I have been through a lot of challenging times over the last few months, some personal and some professional, but because I do not want to disappoint people, I have neglected my own needs. Neglecting myself has led me to mental and physical exhaustion, and burnout. I have shown up to work even when I am sick. I have given my last. I have put the needs of others first even when I know I was hurting and in pain. I have been there for others and did not cry out for myself. I have stayed in situations too long because I was worried about the other person. 

I can no longer live like this. I want to be a dependable person, but it does not have to define me. The decisions I make cannot be centered around what other people think or not letting people down. There is so much more to me than that one word. I must learn to prioritize my needs too. 

What defines Nadia? I am a child of the most high God. I am the head and not the tail. I am fearfully and wonderfully made. I am the apple of God’s eye. I am because He is. 

What defines you?

Be blessed.

Combating Common Misconceptions

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Let me first start off by stating that this is my personal blog. Which means, a lot of what I write about is my personal experiences and opinion. Don’t go quoting me or anything. Lol. 

I want to discuss some misconceptions and stereotypes that have come to my mind recently. Some of which are centered around the current state of America. 

#1 – The Angry Black Woman! Oh Lord, now I get this one a lot. Being a black woman in leadership is challenging. Off top, people tell me that they are intimidated by me. That is until they get to know me and then they are pleasantly surprised. There is a misunderstanding that if you are a black woman who is confident in yourself and your ability, that means you are also a b***c (let me keep it PG-13), mean, and/or intimidating. This could be far from the truth. Now there are times I may come off a little strong or have my resting “b***c” face as some may say,  but that is only because of how hard I had to fight to get where I am or have the respect, I know I deserve. Unfortunately, the images that many people see in the media of black women only feeds into the stereotype. But please stop feeding into this stereotype. Because I am black, woman, beautiful, strong, intelligent, resilient, innovative, kind, loving, powerful, influential, and unapologetic!

#2 – Make America Great Again – How can you make something “great again” when it wasn’t great in the first place? I’m just saying. This country was built on taking things from people. Taking land, taking labor (slaves), and taking lives. The United States of America was built on the premise of racism and hatred from the outset. Unfortunately, just as with any relationship, usually what the foundation it is built on is what keeps it going (i.e. God, sex, friendship, etc.) and that is why there is still so much racism, hatred, and unrest in 2020. But I know that things will get better. But that slogan has got to go. 

#3 I don’t need to go to therapy – To be honest, we all do. It doesn’t mean there is something wrong with you or that you are crazy. One definition of therapy is an act, hobby, task, or program that relieves tension. One thing I have learned in 2020 is that we have to be kind to ourselves. Going to therapy and doing things that bring self-love are important steps in taking care of yourself. If you don’t take care of you, how can you take care of others?? Too many of us (myself included) are pouring from empty cups. Going to therapy helped me in so many ways. It was nice to talk to someone who did not know or have certain expectations of me. Remember, your mental health is probably the most important thing. If your mind isn’t right, most other things in your life won’t be either. 

#4 – The clock is ticking – I turn 35 this year. It came so fast. I just knew that I would have been married with 3 kids by now (God laughing). And if my doctor tells me one more time that I need to have a baby because my eggs are not getting any younger, I will SNAP! As women we have the pressure of this “biological clock” and not to mention family and friends who ask about you meeting a man or having a baby. I used to feel the weight of this pressure and feeling like I was missing out. But I became free when I truly realized the plan that God has for each of us is unique and designed by Him to fulfill His purpose. He doesn’t operate by any clock. He knows exactly what we need and where we need to be. So, I look forward to year 35. I have accomplished so much in my life so far that most people may not ever accomplish in their lifetime. So, ladies, don’t let the pressure from society ever make you doubt the plan that He ultimately has for you! 

You have the POWER!

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What comes to your mind when you think of individuals like Mahatma Ghandi, Martin Luther King Jr., Nelson Mandela, Oprah Winfrey, Rosa Parks, Gloria Steinem, Harriet Tubman, Yousafzai, Susan B. Anthony, Malcolm X, Mother Teresa and Angela Davis? You may think of things like social activists, influential leaders, and people who have changed history. When I think of each of these individuals and their impact, the one thing that comes to my mind is that they all started to make a change where they could. None of them just became worldwide leaders and household names overnight. 

Each one of us has the power in our own way to make a change in the world. Think about what Ghandi said, “be the change you want to see in the world.” In light of the recent events in America, so many people are struggling to make sense of so much racism, inequalities and hatred in the year 2020. You would think that as the top nation of the world, we would have made much further strides when it comes to tackling things like racial injustice and inequality. But unfortunately, this is just not true. There is still a huge gap for African Americans and people of color, like me, when it comes to fair and equal treatment in this country. When many of us ponder to think of what we can do to change the current state of America or how we can make a difference, it does seem like an insurmountable place to begin. But we all have the power to make a difference. Some of us will go on to the be next Oprah and Martin while others will leave this Earth with only people in our family and community knowing the difference we made, but it is important to know that you can make a difference. 

If you are trying to figure out where to start, here is some advice. If you are white, my first piece of advice is to acknowledge the injustice, pain and hurt that black people have experienced in this country for hundreds of years. Then, educate yourself! This means, read books, get on the internet and do your research, watch educational videos, and listen. Learn about the inequality and injustices that people of color have had to face in this country. It is not enough to just reach out to your black family and friends. Knowledge is power! Then the next thing to do is have meaningful conversations with other people of all backgrounds. A lot of this stuff is not easy to talk about, but it is necessary. Also, check your heart. Check your biases and your own prejudices and stereotypes that you have made. And then do something! It looks different for many people but do something positive and impactful that will make a lasting difference in this world. 

For all my black brothers and sisters, may we not lose hope! We must continue to fight the good fight of faith, especially for the generations to come. Let us continue to come together in our communities and fight for what we deserve. Don’t give up! We have blood of African Kings and Queens running through out veins. It is important that we keep the momentum going. That we support one another and be light even when the world tries to dim us! 

We all need each other in this fight! It should be important to ALL of us the injustices and inequalities we see each day. It is no longer acceptable to turn a blind eye or have a deaf ear! You can make a difference! And I hope you have already started! 

Be blessed!

Where My Identity Lies

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Transformation doesn’t always come with a dramatic moment or a clear turning point. Sometimes it happens quietly—after heartbreak, exhaustion, and seasons where you barely recognize yourself. That’s how my change began. I didn’t wake up different one day, but by 2025, I knew something in me had shifted—and it was for the better.

I went through so much during 2024 and part of 2025 that I had no choice but to find myself, because there were many moments when I felt completely lost. In that process, I found confidence, freedom, and peace when I truly found Nadia. One of the most meaningful shifts I experienced was learning where my identity truly lies.

I absolutely love being a principal. It is the most rewarding—and challenging—job I have ever done. Every day, I get to make a difference in the lives of young people and, hopefully, in the lives of my staff as well. People are often impressed that I am a principal, especially as the first Black principal at my school. Somewhere along the way, I realized I had become too wrapped up in my title. Then it became clear: no matter what happens to me, that school will still stand. Being a principal is a job, but God’s calling on my life is rooted in purpose. Titles may change, but calling does not.

“Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails.” — Proverbs 19:21

My identity is in Christ, and the gifts He has given me are meant to change the world—not to define me by a position.

Through deep reflection, I also realized that I had lost myself in previous relationships and situationships. I was so hungry for love that I was willing to do almost anything to keep someone in my life. I compromised my values and my beliefs more times than I care to admit. I was searching for fulfillment in places that could never truly satisfy. It took time—real time—for me to recognize the truth: I was the prize.

“I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made.” — Psalm 139:14

My identity is not tied to my relationship status or to a man, but to who God created me to be.

Did you know that snakes shed their skin in order to grow and release what is old? That image feels deeply personal to me. As I step into a new year, I feel like I’ve shed an old layer of myself. I’m in my growth, confidence, and peace era. I know where my identity lies now, and I move differently—secure in the truth that I am loved, cherished, and called.

“If anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” — 2 Corinthians 5:17

As you enter this next season, be secure in your identity, my friend. No matter the status of your job, relationships, finances, or circumstances, you are still exactly who God intentionally created you to be.

Chosen, not cheated

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Lately I have been having a party. A party that I am the only one invited to. A party where I am the center of attention. A party where I am able to feel everything that I want to feel and do what I want to do. At this party, I can say what I want to say and be what I want to. be. The party I am referring to is my pity party. I have wondered more than once over the last several months the following question: God, why me? This party started to consume me and bring me to a dark place. But God started bringing others to my party: family, encouragement, healing, friendship, security, peace, joy, and the list goes on. 

Author and speaker, Priscilla Shirer, said in a recent message, “you are not cheated, you are chosen.” See, I was having this party of 1 because deep down inside I felt cheated. Why am I still single? Why am I in a job that feels like the weight of the world is on my shoulders? Why am I not further along financially? Why am I so far away from my family? Why, why, why? But those 7 words she said in her message really resonated with me. 

Nothing in our lives is by happenstance. God didn’t just haphazardly create you and me and the circumstances our your lives. Many times, we do not understand fully why we are going through certain situations, but rest assured, God knows all things. He orders every step of our lives and cares about every single detail.

God has not cheated you. He has chosen you. He has called you to be exactly where you are. Even in the hurt and pain, He is loving and kind and continues to walk with you and holds your hand guiding you through every season. Every season which is bringing you newfound understanding, joy, and peace that surpasses all understanding. 

We are a chosen people, a royal priesthood (1 Peter 2:9). Walk in whatever season you are in with your head held high. You are chosen. You are not forgotten. You are strong. You are capable. You are resilient. I am thankful for God choosing me. And now I choose to continue to celebrate this life that God has given me.

End of year reflections

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I cannot believe the year is almost over, and we are about to enter a new year. When things were going well, it seemed like 2024 flew by, but when I was going through some rough patches, time seemed to slow down. Regardless, another year is among us, and I am blessed to be able to see 2025.


I have used these last couple of days to reflect on my year, and I want to share those reflections with you and hopefully encourage you, too.
Here are some of the lessons I learned this year:


Be intentional. There is a saying that you must make time for what’s important in life. That is the definition of being intentional. You must choose what is important to you each day. This year, I learned to be intentional about self-care, boundaries, and investing my time to what’s important. I did not get it right every day, but I set my mind to things that I felt were necessary to bring me peace and joy.
Practice mindfulness. Being mindful is an act of focusing one’s full attention only on the present, experiencing thoughts, feelings, and sensations but not judging them. I am still growing in this area, but I learned to be more mindful of my words and thoughts. As a man thinketh, so is he (Proverbs 23:7). I am also learning to be more present instead of focusing on the past or future. Practicing mindfulness has helped me be more mindful of how I spend my time, what I say to others, how I spend my money, and even what I eat. I have struggled with all these areas, and mindfulness is helping me overcome these things.
Surrender. As a very independent woman, surrendering is a struggle for me. I have had to make things happen on my own for such a long time, so surrendering is a struggle because that means I must give up control. This is an area that God is always working on with me. I am learning to surrender control of my future and the hurtful things people say and do towards me, and trying to have it all together. I have learned to go with the flow. It’s not easy, but I have so much more peace. I did not thing I was going to be able to buy a home this year. I was told no several times. I wanted to make it happen alone, but instead, I prayed about it and surrendered it to God. He opened the right door at the right time and did much more than I could ask or imagine. I am truly grateful. Surrender means giving it to God and trusting He will make everything work for your good.
Don’t underestimate God. People always ask me how I moved from Nashville, TN, to Little Rock, AR. It’s not something that I ever planned. It was all God. I never thought I would uproot my life and move to this city, but God had a different plan. And moving to Little Rock has opened so many more doors than I would have ever had the opportunity to go through in TN. Never underestimate God’s power and what He can do in your life.
Practice gratitude. Each day, I wake up and reflect on the many things I am grateful for. Some are big things, and others may be minor, but regardless, I have much to be thankful for each day that I am here on this earth with a sound mind and an able body. As an educator, I have had my fair share of students who have passed away and left this earth. Many of them did not live to see the age of 18, so I do not take for granted all the things this life has to offer, and I make sure to give thanks for them each day.
Find peace. I have been through some significant challenges this year, but being at peace has been the most rewarding thing. Peace is something no one can take from you. It can be pure chaos around you, but being able to stay in peace is priceless. There are moments when people and things try to work me up, but I try to ground myself in peace, knowing that this, too, shall pass. I feel at peace with God, myself, and others as I end the year.
Lastly, walk in your gift. Often, I try to minimize the gifts and talents God has given me. I do not like attention, and I never want to seem like I am boasting, but God has truly given me amazing talents to make a difference in this world. I am blessed for the calling He has on my life. And the beautiful thing is that we all have different gifts. Walk confidently in who God made you to be and what you bring to this world. You are special, unique, and important.


I am looking forward to another great year with many new memories. I know God has great things in store for you and me.
Many blessings as you enter 2025!

You are stronger than you think

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It’s now my fourth year as a principal. I still cannot believe I am where I am, and the work God is doing through me. Being a principal has been the best job I have ever had. I love being with my students and seeing the direct impact that my leadership has on my school. Also, I can see my vision come to life every day. 

However, leadership has its challenges. Leadership can be very lonely. When you are the sole person responsible for the outcome and success of your school, it can bring a lot of pressure. In the principal role, it is easy to be depleted trying to meet everyone else’s needs. 

Since moving to Little Rock and starting my principalship, I have overcome numerous challenges. In my first year alone, I had to deal with a student being shot right across the street from my school, the chaos of a student protest, several staff members resigning, a teacher being accused of inappropriate sexual conduct and several investigations of staff members and coaches. Being a first-year principal already comes with its challenges including: learning the culture of the school, the daily demands of the job, finding people you can trust, and all the responsibility that comes with the job. So, the challenges I had to handle as a first-year principal almost took me. But I knew God brought me here for a reason, so I have persevered through each challenge. 

The most difficult challenge I have had to overcome is being hurt and betrayed by some of my colleagues and staff members. This has been my current reality. I have felt discouraged, depleted, and betrayed. I never anticipated having to deal with something like this and it has felt very personal. I have felt like the situation was unfair and I have thought about throwing in the towel many times. 

But God continues to show Himself faithful and mighty through it all. Today He reminded me that I am stronger than I think I am. He gives me the courage and strength to keep showing up each day because this is what He has anointed me to do. 

Amid these challenges, God has revealed so much to me: God has sent some amazing people in my school district who encourage and pray for me. And He reminds me that I have so many more people for me than against me.

Through it all, He is helping me grow and learn. He reminds me that He doesn’t make mistakes. He is not unaware of what I have been going through and He continues to be with me even in my darkest hour. He has given me everything I need in this season to keep moving forward. I know all of this is just preparing me for the next season and where God is leading me too next. 

Friend, whatever you may be going through, I want to encourage you. YOU ARE STRONGER THAN YOU THINK. Keep moving forward and trusting God. He will take care of you.

Dear Mama….

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Mother’s Day can be a bittersweet time for some and a joyous occasion for others. Many people have lost a mother and this time of the year may be difficult. No matter your circumstance, it’s a gift to celebrate Mother’s Day. To celebrate the person who gave you life and the life, or lives, that you have brought into the world.


For several years, my mother raised 3 kids on her own. I admire my mom for everything she did and went through as a single mother. She sacrificed so much time and resources for her kids. When you are a child, you have no clue about the sacrifices your mother makes for your family. I didn’t realize how much she did for all 3 of us until I grew older. Something else we may not realize is that mothers are people too. They have dreams and aspirations of their own. They often give up something they want for their own family. For that, I am eternally grateful.


I know that people say that mothers are just doing their job. But being a mother is more than a job. It’s a calling. Do not take the role of a mother for granted. We all are free to make choices and mothers make choices every day to love, support, care, and provide for their families.


With that being said, happy Mother’s Day to the many women holding it down in your homes and in the world. You are AMAZING and I admire you.


To Marie Dean, my mom, no amount of words can describe how grateful I am to call you mom. There is no amount of money I could give to you to repay for all the sacrifices you made for me. You are my role model. I love everything about you and all you have done for me and my brother and sister. I pray that I am half the mother you are when I am blessed to have children of my own.

To all my friends and family members who are mothers, I simply want to say ….. I am of you proud of you! Not only do you give to your family, you give to this world. Keep shining. You are a bright light and exactly what the world needs!!

Happy Mother’s Day.

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    LeAnn Stoll

    Nadia I love this and thanks for sharing. Sometimes I forget what an amazing honor it is to be a mom. Love you my friend and I know your mother has to be an amazing lady to have raised such a wonderful daughter. I know she is so proud of you!!

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    Marie Dean

    Thank you so much. Again, your words are so encouraging and healing to moms every where.
    It’s a blessing to have a daughter like you.
    Love you

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    Thank you Nadia. Much needed reassurance. Love you bunches 🫶🏾

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Acceptance

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The last four months have been a rollercoaster of events in my personal and professional life. I like things organized and done in a particular order, which often leaves me wanting to control things. Letting go of control can be challenging at times. I am guilty of saying things like, “I don’t trust anyone to get it done,” “I don’t need help,” and “I have everything under control.” I can struggle when things start to go awry and out of my realm of influence. I am sure many can relate. In the last couple of years, so many things have been beyond my control. Instead of being frustrated with my lack of control, I began to surrender more and allow the chips to all where they landed. 

In the last couple of weeks, not only have I surrendered the things out of my control, but I have also come to a place of acceptance. Webster’s dictionary defines accept as “to endure without protest or reaction.” I have stopped protesting about certain things or reacting emotionally. It has provided me with a sense of peace. I know that I will be okay no matter what may be happening around me. This understanding is a walk of faith. Strong faith allows me to accept the season God has destined me to be in. 

I have accepted the challenging people that I work alongside. I accept that some people cannot give me what I need. I accept my body and that I am fearfully and wonderfully made. I accept the friendships and relationships that have shifted over the years. I accept the journey that I am on. 

The more I tried to control things, the more out of control I felt. I wanted certain things to be exactly how I wanted them to be. I would be disappointed when things did not go my way. God has helped me change my need for control through the many experiences I have gone through. 

God wants us to relinquish control because He is the ultimate controller. He has it all in his hands. Knowing that God has me in the palm of His hand gives me peace in each season. I am embracing being right where I am supposed to be. So now, I remind myself that God is in control, and I trust Him with all my needs. The more I trust, the more I accept where I am and feel more at peace.

Speaking Life

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Within the last month, I have probably gone through the most challenging situation in my life, specifically as it relates to my career. The mountain of my circumstances came from nowhere. I have been criticized and personally attacked. I started to feel like so many things were out of my control. In my mind, I started to believe that I was defeated, that there was nothing I could do, and that my power was being taken away from me. 

As I spent time with God and in prayer, I started to realize the power of my words. I was allowing myself to be the victim. I allowed the actions and words of others become a stronghold over me. I forgot what God says about me.

God reminded me that I am victorious, I am strong, and I am confident. I am all these things because He who is in me is greater than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). I am also all these things because of Who is on my side. When we feel defeated, it is easy to just lie down and take things, but we must remember who we are in Christ. As I started to pray and meditate, my thoughts started to shift. Instead of believing I was defeated, I remembered that God has defeated all and that I was victorious. Instead of believing that there was nothing I could do, I remembered that I could do something; I can cast my cares to God. Instead of believing that my power was being taken away from, I remembered that God is mighty and powerful in the land. No one can take power away from me unless I allow them to. 

I started to speak life and God’s word.  

“I can do all things through Him who strengthens me.” (Philippians 4:13)

“I am more than a conqueror.” (Romans 8:37)

NO weapon formed against me shall prosper. (Isaiah 54:17)

“The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life and have it to the full.” (John 10:10)

This difficult season is not over; however, I will speak life over my situation. I will trust God with my circumstances, and I will not be a victim. Ultimately, God is in control. I cannot think of a time that He failed me, and I know it is not any different now. 

My brothers and sisters, remember what God says about you! 

Peace

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    I needed to hear this and I need to tell you that I am praying with you.
    Matthew 18: 19-20. – Again I say to you, that if two of you agree on earth about anything that they may ask, it shall be done for them by My Father who is in heaven.
    20 For where two or three have gathered together in My name, I am there in their midst.”

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Don’t Quit

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I can’t tell you the number of times I have stopped and started a weight loss program. I always start off so strong, but I start to give up when I do not see results immediately. I end up going back to bad habits and then repeating the cycle again. I told myself this year I was not going to give up on myself. It is less about the number on the scale and more about the mindset for me this time around. I want to be consistent and persevere. 

I know I am referring to weight loss, but this applies to so many other areas in our lives. Oftentimes, we give up on things when it is hard, or we don’t see the immediate results we want to see. We give up on relationships/friendships, we give up on a dream, we give up on a loved one, we give up on goals that we have, or we give up on ourselves. What have you given up on? 

The bible says the fervent prayer of the righteous availeth much (James 5:16). That means that whatever you are believing for, keep praying and believing God’s promises and don’t give up. It may be taking longer than you expected or you may feel like it’s not going to happen, but this year be determined to stay the course. 

I weigh-in each week to see my progress and when I don’t see that I made any progress, I remind myself to keep going. Then I set new and different goals for the week to challenge myself. I will not give up this time around and I hope you won’t either. Keep believing! 

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My end of year reflection

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I have spent the last couple of days reflecting over 2022. The one word that summarizes this year for me is GROWTH. I did a lot of growing and learning this year. 

I had to grow as a leader. Being a principal is the most difficult, but most rewarding job I have ever had. Every day I am faced with many problems and so many people look to me for the solutions. It can be a lot of pressure at times. I have grown in knowing that I do not always have to have the answer, I can ask others for help, and. it’s okay to not have it all together. I have grown to learn that leadership is not straight and narrow path. It is a path that is curvy with many bumps in the road. I have also grown in learning boundaries as a leader and that self-care is important. 

I have grown in my relationships. I have learned when it is time to let certain people go and when to embrace others. I have learned the true power of forgiveness. I have learned that I am not the victim and must take responsibility for the choices I have made in my relationships. I have learned that it’s okay to not always be the strong friend, but to be vulnerable and to share my hurts with others. 

I have grown in my mindset. I have learned to be more mindful of my choices. I have learned that I do not have to respond in the moment. I have learned to be more mindful of impulsive decisions. I have learned to be mindful of what I am focusing my thoughts on. I have learned to be mindful of my time and the power of saying no.

I have grown to love myself even more. I struggle with loving my physical body. I am learning that my body is beautiful and to accept that I am fearfully and wonderfully made. This have been a long journey of learning to love myself, but I am slowly getting there.

Lastly, I have grown in the area of acceptance. Comparison can be hard at times, but I am peace knowing that I am where I need to be. 

As I go into 2023, I want to keep growing and being who God called me to be. 

The focus for the new will be SURRENDER. I want to trust God completely knowing that His plans for my life are good and He is in control. I want to walk in peace and focus what God is doing in my life in the present and now worry about the future for I know the plans He has for me will work out for my good. 

May you continue to shine your light into the new year! 

Nadia 

Where My Identity Lies

The author reflects on their personal transformation, recognizing identity shifts that occurred quietly through struggles in 2024-2025. Emphasizing the importance of personal purpose over job titles, they find confidence and fulfillment rooted in faith. Understanding that true identity stems from within, they encourage others to embrace their inherent worth.

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Chosen, not cheated

Lately I have been having a party. A party that I am the only one invited to. A party where I am the center of attention. A party where I am able to feel everything that I want to feel and do what I want to do. At this party, I can say what I…

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End of year reflections

I cannot believe the year is almost over, and we are about to enter a new year. When things were going well, it seemed like 2024 flew by, but when I was going through some rough patches, time seemed to slow down. Regardless, another year is among us, and I am blessed to be able…

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4 responses to “My end of year reflection”

  1. K.Tarver Avatar
    K.Tarver

    Beautifully said.

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  2. Genevieve Avatar
    Genevieve

    You need to share this with the world . You can write a small book with those words ; you will be helping a lot of people to free themselves of what they which they could have been.

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  3. Eazali Done Avatar
    Eazali Done

    Magnificent piece of writing. It’s wonder to see people’s perspective and interpretations of their own ideology. I enjoyed reading this.

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  4. Sonya Murphy Avatar
    Sonya Murphy

    The portion about mindset growth and body acceptance really hit home for me! Excellent, inspirational writing. Luv this!!!

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